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True Enemies?

Mike Focht 11/6/2026

Have I therefore become your enemy because I tell you the truth?

Galatians 4:16


It is a searching question. It is a very important question. At some point in life, and at various points through life, the test will come to all of us. What is the test? The test of truth! Will we befriend the truth or others? Will we love the truth or ourselves?

   The test is illustrated and lived all throughout the Scriptures. Abigail confronts David with the truth of his murderous attitude toward Nabal. How does he respond? Does he become her enemy because of the truth? No! David loves the truth! He sees God’s blessing in the woman sent to tell him the truth. David looked at his rebuker and said: Blessed is the LORD God of Israel, who sent you this day to meet me (1 Samuel 25:32).

   Do all men love the truth? They do not. What happened when Elijah was sent to rebuke Ahab for the murder of Naboth? How did Ahab respond to the messenger of God sent to speak the truth? Ahab looked at Elijah and said: Have you found me, O my enemy (1 Kings 21:20)? Elijah was only Ahab’s enemy because he spoke the truth. Ahab didn’t love the truth. He loved evil.

   How will we know if we are a true friend of the truth? Well, there are two simple tests.

   First, do we love others enough to speak the truth? Do we love others enough to say what needs to be said, even though they may not like it? Do we love others like Abigail, Elijah, and Paul, as well as all the prophets and apostles who joined them?

   The worst outcome is not being treated as an enemy by others. The worst outcome is not truly being a friend of the truth, and withholding the truth to love ourselves rather than others. What if Abigail, Elijah, and Paul hadn’t spoken the truth?! Their consciences would have stung if David had killed Nabal, Ahab’s sin went unrebuked, and the Galatian believers dove into legalism without Paul saying a word about it. It is always better to be the enemy of one who hates the truth than to be an enemy of the one who loves the truth.  

   Second, do we love the truth when it is presented to us? It is one thing to speak the truth to another, and it is another thing to have the truth spoken to us! When we are the David, the Ahab, or the Galatians, and God sends someone to us, how do we respond? Do we love the truth when we have to agree with God against ourselves, or do we choose to love ourselves instead? How many Christians reject the simplest correction because they cannot bear to see themselves as faulty, wrong, or something less than a stellar Christian? Too many love their reputations more than the truth. Religious pride lurks in all our hearts. Even so, it is possible to love the truth more than we love ourselves. Can we bless our rebukers like David, or do we see them as our enemy, like Ahab?